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Childless and Childfree Black History: Octavia Butler and Ava DuVernay

February 15, 2018

There are some subjects I feel as though I am not qualified to speak about. Imposter syndrome is strong, y’all. Black History is one of those subjects. I can appreciate it, and I can learn from it, but I can never speak on the subject with any real authority.


So when we were separating out which NotMoms to recognized for Black History Month 2018, I was nervous about offering my opinions.  Am I enough? Is my admiration for these women enough to give me the permission to speak about them? Either way, here I am and here they are.


Octavia Butler


In September 2017, I wrote a post about Butler