Childless & Childfree News: Top Headlines of 2017
2017 is almost over, and there's a long menu to choose from that wrap up the year's high and low points. Topical lists break down the news from politics to entertainment to people that died. This is our look-back at six stories from 2017 that held special interest for The NotMom community. And most of them will bear watching in the New Year, too. A Look at Government-Controlled Reproduction Hulu' took the world into the scarily believable world of The Handmaid's Tale where ba
How to Find a Girlfriend Like You -- A Woman Without Kids
It's no secret that Christmastime and other end-of-year holidays can intensify existing feelings of loneliness. For some reason, the part we don't talk about is that those emotions hang around for the other 11 months of the year, too. Here's an example of both. A few weeks before Christmas 2017,I received a voicemail from a Wisconsin woman hoping to find friends like her through The NotMom networks. She was specific in her hunt: NotMoms who were post-menopausal and living the
A 'Love Actually' Legacy: Eva Cassidy
I can't remember where I heard Eva Cassidy sing for the first time. I know it was the late 1990s, and and I scurried out and bought two of her albums, Years later, the rest of the world fell in love with her through the Christmas movie favorite, Love Actually. Love Actually premiered in 2003, but like so many others, it repeats on smaller screens so often that almost everyone you know has seen at least a quarter of it. It's Eva's voice, as always, is memorable. So is her per
The NotMom Interview: Mrs. Santa Claus, The Woman Behind the Sleigh
Childless and childfree women come in lots of shapes and sizes. We are all colors, all cultures, and all ages. As much as we have in common, we are also very different. Some people say it is strange to define ourselves by things that we are not, so let’s determine what we are instead. Childfree blogger Laura LaVoie interviews women without children who answer the question, “If you’re not a Mom, then who are you?” December 2017 is very special: I had an opportunity to talk wit
Our Favorite Things for Your Holiday Gift List
You’re probably already inundated with ideas from all corners of the Internet for this holiday shopping season. But here at The NotMom, we wanted to provide you with just a few more. These are gifts for yourself, your NotMom friends, or anyone else who might be a head-scratcher when it comes to finding their perfect holiday gift. We have curated a list of fabulous gifts to buy with just one or two clicks. But, full disclosure, if you purchase from theAmazon links here, we wil
Sophia the Robot Wants a Baby and It's Creepy
There was some pretty interesting and unexpected news out of Saudi Arabia in the last couple of months. First, at the end of October 2017, Saudi Arabia became the first nation to grant citizenship to a robot. Yes, that’s right. A robot named Sophia that has the same rights – more in some cases – as actual human women in Saudi Arabia. By ITU Pictures [CC BY 2.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.0)], via Wikimedia Commons Then, toward the end of November, Sophia made ad
Still Loving 'DaVinci Code' Stories But So Very Tired of Childless Female Sidekicks
While I have admittedly enjoyed author Dan Brown’s best-selling series of stories about Robert Langdon's searches for religious icons that started with The Da Vinci Code in 2003, his use of sidekick women who can’t have children is getting tiresome. Sidekick women are the norm in action adventure novels, especially those novels whose primary audience is male. Such characters aren’t necessarily bad, as they are sometimes quite accomplished and intriguing. However, as women au
