Long-time readers of this blog know that The NotMom team has worked to stay clear of divisive political issues, even though women's reproductive health, and related choices, is the ultimate powder-keg. We felt that women without children -- by choice or by chance -- fall across the full political spectrum. Perhaps that was a mistake. It's something we're thinking deeply about. Now that you're aware of that, I want to share a recent discussion I had with "Jessica", a longtime